Not Giving a Fuck does not mean being indifferent; it means being comfortable with being different

... what I'm talking about here is essentially learning how to focus and prioritize your thoughts effectively - how to pick and choose what matters to you and what does not matter to you... This is incredibly difficult. It takes a lifetime of practice and discipline to achieve. But it is perhaps the most worthy struggle one can undertake in ones's life.

... when you give a fuck about everyone and everything you will feel you're perpetually entitled to be comfortable and happy at all times, that everything is supposed to be just exactly the fucking way you want it to be. This is a sickness. And it will eat you alive. You will see every adversity as an injustice, every challenge as a failure, every inconvenience as a personal slight, every disagreement as a betrayal

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F* ck